Sunday, June 08, 2008

Hello Friends and Family,

I wanted to take a moment to write our amazing supporters and extend my gratitude to all of you for your years of faithful support to our family. This message can also serve as a notification to those who may not have heard of Lauren’s recent illness resulting in her death on June 7, 2008.

Schedule of services:
Tuesday, June 10th 1-3 pm Receiving of Friends at Simpsonville First Baptist
Tuesday, June 10th 3pm Memorial/Celebration Service at Simpsonville First Baptist
Grave-side Service immediately following at Cannon Memorial park in Fountain Inn.
In lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to Lauren’s Hope Foundation, P.O. Box 80081, Simpsonville, SC 29680

Andy and I will celebrate our 15th wedding anniversary on Thursday, June 12th. This is by far the hardest experience of our married life. Right now, there is no doubt that God’s grace is sustaining us, but I am sure the coming days will bring much grief. The only request of our family is that you pray for healing not only for our immediate family, but for this community as well…especially the children.

I have heard in the last 24 hours the careful attention that many of you as parents have used in telling your children of the news. It is very difficult to describe to them why this would happen. My suggestion to you as we have discussed with our boys is that Lauren fulfilled the purpose in which He created her. For some reason, God chose that His purposes for Lauren’s life only required 10 years on this earth to be accomplished, but what impact those 10 displayed! Please hear these words, God has a sovereign plan for each life He creates, yours and your children’s included. We MUST trust His timing and His sovereignty. He will reveal all of the “why” details to us when it is our turn to see Him. God has GRACEFULLY revealed to Andy and I many of these “why” questions over the course of Lauren’s illness. All of these questions result in the same answer: It is all accomplishing GLORY for God in eternity. We all cannot look at a situation like this with human eyes, it can only clearly be seen through God’s eternal eyes.

When we chose to name this foundation, “Lauren’s Hope”, careful thought was expressed through the word “hope”. We wanted people to see that all of us have hope to face whatever circumstance when we trust in Christ as our Savior and Lord. Christ has REVEALED this hope to Lauren! She can clearly see that His ways are higher than our ways, and she is REJOICING in the fruits of her labor! Romans 8:18 “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the GLORY that will be revealed in us.” This verse has been posted over Lauren’s bed for years to serve as a reminder that her suffering would PALE in comparison to the amazing gifts that God was storing for her in eternity. The primary gift being eternal souls that were reached and brought into heaven with her because of her faithfulness to Him, and her spirit reflecting God’s love to others.

Even though we are all sad and we are going to miss her desperately, let’s REJOICE with her in knowing that he is revealing those gifts to her as we speak.

God’s Grace to you and your family,
With all our love and gratitude, Cindy McCraw, Andy, Cayden, Braylen, and Kyron.

Cindy McCraw
Lauren's Hope Foundation
PO Box 80081
Simpsonville, SC 29680
864-228-8300

27 comments:

PattyT said...

Cindy and Andy,
We will be praying for your family and the community around you. I know the hole in the heart will a tough one to deal with, but we do know that the grace and love of God is more then enough to fill it and bring joy to each day as you go through these difficult times.
My love and prayers are with you all.
In Christs Love,
Patty and Jesse

Leslie Phillips said...

Cindy, Andy, and family,
My heart is broken for you all...I know this a difficult time and I pray you will feel Christ's arms wrapped around you with love right now. I feel certain the angels in Heaven are rejoicing right now as Lauren is with them and with Jesus...laughing, dancing, singing, and through with all of the pains of MPS. I am going to try and come for the service to honor Lauren there, but I wanted you to know that you have a wide community of people who love you all and will be praying for your family.
With much love and prayer,
Leslie Phillips
philla5@wfu.edu

Tayyaba Beg said...

Dear Cindy, Andy and Family,
Some reason i thought of Luren all day yesterday and came here to check on her, not knowing her illness. My heart aches to know her loss today. No words can really comfort you today but please know, My prayers and thoughts are with you. May God be with you today and guide you through this painful time and give you strength. May you find peace and solace.
All my friends are sad for you and praying for you and your family.

With Much love and prayers.

Elizabeth Hindson said...

Words seem inadequate at times like this. I am so sorry that Lauren had to leave us here on earth but so happy that she is finally home and no longer has to suffer. I am praying for your family now and in the days ahead.

Mommy Jess said...

Your faith is amazing. I have no doubt that God is definitely with you all at this time of such heartbreak- giving you comfort as only He can. I pray that He will continue that comfort through each milestone you go through in the mere future and that He will use her legacy to bring glory and honor to His message. We are surely praying for you and your family.-- Jessica Few (Brian's wife)

Jodi said...

Cindy & Andy,
Brad and I were so heartbroken to hear about Lauren last night! We can't even begin to imagine what you all are experiencing right now, but we are praying God's grace & mercy for you. Your faith throughout this process has been an encouragement to so many. Know that you're in our thoughts & prayers!
love,
Brad, Jodi & Walker

Anonymous said...

Cindy and Andy,
We are so sorry for your loss. We are bless that we had a chance to meet Lauren. God needed her back home with him. Lauren touched so many lives here.

Angie, Bob Chambers and the crew.

Anonymous said...

We had no idea what was wrong at the office when we received a call that Jerry needed to change his appt. What heartbreak when we heard your little girl had gone home to be with Jesus. From what I have read and heard she was such a blessing to everyone she came in contact with. I wish I had met her but will have to wait to see her in heaven. Our prayers are with you and your whole family for you to have peace and know this was God's plan from the start.
Shirley and Jerry Tucker

Nurse Betty L. Boop said...

What an amazing girl you raised for God! She will be sorely missed.

Prayers and hugs for you all,
Lisa
Ben's nurse from WC

Ben & Bennie said...

Oh Cindy, we are deeply saddened by this news. Joan and I want to let you know just how much you and your family have meant to us as a beacon of strength, courage, and inner peace while facing your circumstance.

Please know that we will be praying for the McCraw family in the coming months and years. May God continue to bless you with comfort and peace.

Bennie & Joan Waddell

Anonymous said...

Cindy and Andy,

We are so sorry to hear the news. Please let us know if there is anything you need in the coming days and/or months. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Words are not enough for this time, please know you have our support and love.

With love and prayers,
Laura and Tony Messer

Billy Daubenmire said...

Dr. & Mrs. McCraw:

Our hearts go out to you and your family. We can't imagine the hurt you must be feeling. Your family is in our prayers.

Remembering Christ's Love,

Billy & Rachel Daubenmire

Linda Ballard said...

Dear Andy, Cindy and boys
I was so sadened to get the call from Terri Saturday of Larens's passing. My heart breaks for you. Your family has been such a Testimony to all of us. The love and faith you have in Jesus Christ is so great and it shows. Lauren may be gone from this earth, but her "precious smile" will forever live in our hearts. I can only imagine the smile on her face, sitting in the lap of Jesus. My prayers will continue to be with your family in the days ahead. Love, Linda Ballard

Kyla said...

My prayers are with you all, Cindy. I'm so sorry your precious girl had to go home so soon.

Gretchen said...

I'm very very sorry for your loss. I'm awed by your faith in God and know you are staying strong in Him. May his peace be with you always and I know Lauren is resting in His sight now.

God bless you,
Gretchen
www.simonpeters.org
(Here from Bennie's blog)

PJ said...

My prayers are with you. (I came over via Ben's blog)

Diane Seckinger said...

Dear Cindy,

I just learned today of your loss and my heart aches for you and your family. I didn’t have the pleasure of meeting Lauren, however I could tell from reading your articles and seeing her pretty photos, that she was a very special & beautiful little girl whom touched many lives! Your website was forwarded to me today by a friend and I spent most of today reading it. I didn’t stop until I had read the entire site! You are truly amazing and inspirational. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you & provide you strength to see you through this difficult time. You are right though, Lauren’s gifts are being revealed as we speak so let’s rejoice. I can only imagine the wonderful gifts He has in store for you!

My prayers are with you all! (Diane Seckinger – formerly Ladd)

Mieke Embry (mom to Luke, MPS-IIIA) said...

Cindy, Andy & Family,
We are saddened to hear of Lauren's passing. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you all the comfort and peace that God can provide during this time.

moosh in indy. said...

Cindy and Andy-
I'm here from Ben's place and just wanted to tell you that my heart and prayers go out to you in this difficult time. Congratulations on your anniversary and may God's blessings be with you.

Anonymous said...

Hi, Cindy and Andy. I am Cindy McBride's mom and just wanted you and Andy to know that we have been holding you and your family up in prayer during this difficult season you have been going through. I can't imagine what you have been going through for all these years, knowing your child could be dying and it being out of your control. But God was and still IS in control, and I know your lives have been a blessing to others and will continue to be throughout all eternity. I told Cindy I knew her grandparents were waiting to welcome their little one with open arms - as was her Savior!!

And before too long, we will get to meet her there - can't wait until you can introduce me to your precious child!! We have a little girl waiting on us there as well...I've had a vision of her and can't wait to see her!!

You and Andy are precious to my Cindy and Eddie and their family, as you are to us. We will be making a donation to your wonderful Lauren's Hope Foundation in honor of little Lauren. Praise God for your loving hearts for children around this world that are suffering with this horrible disease...I feel in my heart that God has a cure right around the corner for His precious children!!

We love you and your family and will continue to pray for God's peace and love to saturate you completely!!

In His precious, lovely name!!
Jeannie & Mike Crane

Anonymous said...

Dear Cindy and Andy,
You may remember my friend and i from a school project that we did on your daughter: Jessica and Olivia. i heard about Lauren's recent death and i am very sorry for your loss. For the day that i got to spend time with Lauren, i already new God had some wonderful things in store for her.
My heart and prayers go out to your family. I hope you and your husband have a great evening.
In Christ's Love
God Bless,

Jessica and Olivia.

Crystal :) said...

I was so blessed to be a part of Lauren's Memorial Service. I had only physically met Lauren one time and that was this past March at Special Olypmics. I saw Colleen and went over to say hi to her and she introduced me to Lauren. I grabbed her hand and introuduced myself and she gave me the greatest smile. I will never forget that. She was a blessing to many I know, because she blessed me that day. I will be praying for you and your family as you go down this road that God has mapped out for you!!!!

kim hix said...

Cindy, Andy and Family,
How heartbroken I am for this news. As i returned home from vacation, afraid to see the paper I soon realized your heartache and Laurens liberation into a pain free eternity. Over the week as I was gone, I checked into work (GMH) to get a status check, however my co-workers were unable to give me any news. I noticed Cindy's time of her blog, one of hundreds of nights I am sure you are awake , heart heavy. Lauren was a wonderful, loved girl as you were wonderful loving parents and siblings. I am so thankful that you have your faith to lift you up and engulf you at this time. I so wanted to be there to be at her life celebration. I am so deeply saddened for your loss, she fought so hard, as did you all. My deepest and most sincere sympathy to you all. Kim hix

Misty Luthcke said...

McCraw family, I am Misty, Will's mom, I just met Cindy, Lauren and your niece at the Isabel Jurado Walk.It was such a great pleasure to meet you, I have been to your website many times prior. I am so humbled by your graciousness in your time of sorrow and grief. We live knowing our children will die sooner than they should, but it is still shocking when it happens. I am grateful to have met you all and will be praying for your family, Misty

Allyson Velkovich said...

Hi there...I came across Lauren's website and blog through Isabel Jurado's site. I live in Rock Hill & know the Jurado family from my son who has Cerebral Palsy allowing him to have been in a couple of summer school sessions with Izzy, who is also in the same elementary school as my daughter. Anyway, I just wanted to extend our family's thoughts and prayers to all of you on the loss of your precious angel. May the Lord keep His arms wrapped around all of you now and in the days to come.
In Christ,
The Velkovich Family
www.gogillen.org

Anonymous said...

Cindy and Andy, You and your family are heavy on my heart often. I was so blessed to have known Lauren and loved her. She will be greatly missed but we rejoice in knowing we will see her again. What a blessing that she was born to such wonderful Christian parents that did an awesome job of loving and caring for her. In His love, Jamie Lance

Anonymous said...

Dear Andy and Cindy,

I am not sure if you will ever have a chance to read this letter that I wrote you but, in my heart and to god ifound this was the right thing to do in order to pay my respects to the both of you, lauren, cayden, braylin and kyron. My heart is with you in your time of loss. I appologize for my lateness in my letter I just didn't quite know how to say how I felt nor did I have any idea what to say to you, I knew to say I am so sorry for your loss but, deep down I wanted to say somthing more meaningfull something more sincere. I wanted to tell you Lauren was one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen her smile could warm even the coldest heart, anyone who saw Lauren could not help but, smile including myself. I did attend Laurens funneral to pay my respects and I did truly love Lauren. Laurens loss is one I shall never forget losing Lauren, has greatly effected me and many others in the Fountian Inn and Simpsonville area and anyothers who may have known Lauren. I was very depressed with Lairens death sad it effected me for weeks maybe even months my friends noticed but I still don't believe anyof them knew why, accept for god. I had relized how much change one person can make in the world. Even though Lauren could not literally speak she spoke through the heart which to me speaks far beyond regular speaking, for when you speak through the heart you speak through the soul. When you speak through the heart you can speak to some one who is deaf, blind or just hasn't quite found themselfs yet. Lauren touched me in so many ways I could not write them all down on this note. Andy and Cindy you are amazing, loving parents and you truly gave Lauren the best life and home that she could have had. I wish you the best and that I am here anytime you need some one if you ever do, as much as Lauren has touched my life you have as well when I grow up my dream is to be as wonderful as a person as you have been.